(Free) - Boundaries .

       Personal boundaries are guidelines, rules or limits that a person creates to identify him or herself which they think are reasonable, safe and permissible ways for other people to behave around them and how they will respond when someone steps outside those limits. They define you as an individual. They are statements of what you will do, what you won't do, what you do like and what you don't like... or how close someone can get to you.

Boundaries however, are not always the best things. They can keep you from progressing in life. You can't let your boundaries control you, no matter how much you want to. You need to do different things. Take a risk. Life is a risk, but you can't keep yourself safe by not doing things. That's no fun. Life shouldn't be about worries, I think people should just have fun. There's a quote from a song I really like :

"Everybody dies, but not everybody lives." -Drake (:

 That's really true. Some people go through their lives taking orders & setting boundaries. At some time you have to make a decision. Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy, and that's how we're made. So you can waste your life drawing lines. Or you can live your life crossing them.